Sexvilla 2, jenna jameson 3d, and Hentai 3d 2 are the best hands down (although practically all the same game.) They just offer so much in the way of total customization and control. I think Sexsim has a long way to go compared to these titles although Sexsim's graphics are way better.
You could create any girl from scratch, and add any hairstyle from your selection. Do every bit of make up, even change skin colour to anything you liked. Its way better than selecting from your preset downloads and having to mess about in text pad to get what you want.
Someone else has already went into length on these games and what they offer, just thought I'd post that my opinion is relatively the same.
"You must own a particular hair style in order to choose it. Hairstyles come with characters"
Concidaring this costs 8000+ PP I think I'll give that a miss if it doesn't actually come with any styles (not even one?) ...for that you can actually get 3 girls, if only I could offord them. I want Samantha and Kendra right now *cry*
I got the tiny male result just by creating a new person following directions in creating threads but reducing all the numbers dramatically instead of just slightly
I didn't think the guys already available were that bad, although I dont like the totally ripped look as you seem to. Tattoo's are nearly always good though!
This may sound strange but I tried to create a male character where the body was removed but the penis was still there. I thought this would be better for a nicer 1st person camera view for nicer close up's but I ended up getting this tiny midget man and it looks really silly although it kind of works.
I think adding something offical like that would be great, for those who think the male model gets in the way.